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by Debbie (California) My question is about dating during recovery from alcoholism.

I have been attending AA as well as Celebrate Recovery for 5 months.

My son came up with the idea of having his favorite dinner and a dessert.

I need ideas on some good quotes to put on banners to hang up for... He hit his 60 day mark and I would like to have a celebration dinner for him.

Now this isn't always the case, and I'm also not saying that any of this is your fault. But it is something to think about, be aware of, and act upon if it is a theme in your life.

Although you can't attend AA with your partner (unless you too have an addiction to alcohol), you can go to Al-Anon meetings.

You said you’ve met recently, so I would imagine there’s plenty that you don’t know about each other.

I am all for seeing the best in people and believing that people can improve, but you said it yourself: You’re not sure if you would want to stick around if he relapses.

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I don't know your history, nor am I aware if you or another family member has ever struggled with an addiction.

When it comes to delaying gratification, when it comes to "choosing" between "one step at a time" versus "all at once," thinking in terms of gradual and taking time to develop and being objective and realistic are not how addicts are wired. Most recovering addicts don't realize that admitting to being out of control and surrendering to their powerlessness, as having done so in Steps I and II, also apply to their emotions when dating and in early stage relationships.

The problem is not the relationship or the intimacy. Sex tends to increase one's level of emotional involvement and intensity of feelings, especially for women.

Lindsay asks: "I just met this guy who seems perfect on paper.

Four dates into what seemed like a fairytale and he told me that he's a recovering alcoholic.

But after a few months, you end up seeing other sides of each other. That’s a good sign at least, but there’s still plenty you don’t know about him.

You don’t know what triggers his drinking or what his follow-through is like in general.

My son came up with the idea of having his favorite dinner and a dessert.

I need ideas on some good quotes to put on banners to hang up for him.

Many have a hard time accepting that a hiatus from intimate relationships is necessary.

In their minds, dating and new relationships seem benign.

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